I hate when people make up sources. I also hate when they take things out of context to “prove a point” which no one buys. This is especially annoying when you can have a great conversation starter, and lies, fabrication and half-truths cause the conversation to dead end.
Wolf, with the picture on the wall, I ihave a feeling that’s more of a “sensitivity” thing, where someone can dig up a source, rather than halacha. I’m not even sure chumra is the right word.