“If that is the case YOU should insist on not being called by your first name in public. Arichas Yomim is certainly worth it.”
Now I know that a) kibud av v’em and b) shiluach hakan a re mitzvos that guarantee arichas yamim. I had not heard that not being called by my first name in public would guarantee that, too.
What posuk was that in, btw?