“When our gedolim make a decree they dont do it becuz of culture. What goyish culture does doesnt mean anything to us. if they dont call there wifes by there first names than its because thats what the Torah wants of them (and us). It has nothing to do with goyish culture or goyish society.”
I am not certain, but exactly WHEN did our Gedolim make the decree that it is assur to call one’s wife by her given name in public????? I must have been out taking a walk at the time.