I personally feel that many people are too pressured and are overwelmed. They don’t enjoy their heritage because they are just told rules but are not shown the beauty. Plus, some are not prepared to fight outside ideas from college.
To prevent them from falling, they need to be given what they need emotionally and intellectually. Show them the beauty and joy of practicing. Also, let them be aware that while they might encounter other ideas elsewhere, ours is truth because…..
Kind of like how Rabbi Mechanic explains things.
We should let kids know, “It’s not up to you to complete the task, but you are not free to withdraw from it.” (Pirkei Avos) We don’t have to be perfect, we should just try to do our best.