feivel- as usual, excellent post!
SJS- this is an unending argument of which came first, the chicken or the egg?
The girls shouldn’t be doing non-tznius things and the men shouldn’t have been looking to begin with. Well here’s some news- the girls are making it harder for the men to guard their eyes by doing/wearing provocative things!
Basically, everyone needs to do their part and stop pushing the responsibility and blame on to the other gender.
In addition- I nominate both feivel’s & Rosh Yeshiva’s posts as Posts of the Year