If you would have asked me this question a couple of years ago, I would have answered she should just give up her dream of having a learning boy and be realistic. But i had a very inspiring teacher who told us that she really wanted a learning boy and her parents could not support. Her family thought she was crazy when she married her husband-who is learning full time. She “supports” her (large) family by being a teacher. She said its amazing how she sees that parnassah is from Hashem. She said if thats what you truly want and you do your hishtadlus than the rest is up to Hashem. So my answer-if this is what you deep down want than go for it.
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