Sof davar-
someone posted that after a few years the wife gets burnt out and can’t tell her husband she doesn’t want that way of life. i know this is on another tangent but- Hello! A wife should be able and comfortable to communicate with her husband her true and honest feelings!!!
THAT is exactly the problem. It’s not that the woman have no communication. They just feel bad stopping their husbands from learning. They feel that if they complain, then they’ll send their hub out of kollel. Instead they complain to the whole rest of the world.
Girls today need to be taught that a woman’s place is her HOME and her KIDS. They need to stop preaching about kollel.
Very nice for those who learn. But the woman IS NOT IN CHARGE OF PARNASSAH.
You cannot work on the expense of your kids. I’ve been through it. And I regret every minute that I wash a washed out/nervous mother because I have zero koach after coming home from work.