Me neither. All I see in my place is kvetchy housewifes in snoods down to the ears / eyebrows, and laundry hanging from the clothesline strung between two trees.
As far as blowout kiddashim, if you call sponge cake on a styrofoam platter, then my shul is party central!
Ok, Kovod Hatorah, all kidding aside. I’m just being sarastic, because its my nature. I do know that you mean well by alerting us to the bad things that go on in our community. But is it really that bad? That widespread? Not the circles that I (and likley the CR crowd as a whole) travel in. Do we need to be mindful? Of course. Do we need to stay home? No. Its somewhere in the middle, but there is way more good than bad in our midst.