volvie –
we’re not talking about marrying someone from a pic. by the time you have dated the person, you have seen them in all dimensions. the point of the pic is to give you an idea of what the person is before you meet them. yes, some pics look much better than real life, but that’s not the point of the pic. regardless of whether the person looks good or not, you can see certain attributes from a pic.
and if you are disappointed bc of the pic, think of all those doa’s that can be prevented…