At a vort of ba’alei teshuva, an irreligious aunt of the chosson told me how impressed she was with the kallah: “Look how she conducts herself with other men- she’s so modest! I’m so happy that my nephew found such a rare girl like her.”
Her reaction reminded me of the reactions of our own irreligious relatives to our fully separate chasuna over a decade ago. They were amazed that men and women could dance without removing the mechitza to join each other.
When we do our jobs faithfully, we bring kiddush Hashem.