All of us (BTs and FFBs) have some experiences (great acceptacne in speechgiving or teaching) that others do not enjoy. I have a friend who for lack of a better word is Mr. Charisma. He just oozes class and charm. You can’t buy it, you can’t fake it. He’s not even the richest or most extravagant of my friends. He just has the aura.
Does that mean I need to jump off a bridge? Of course not. Becuase I write better than he does (or so I think), so while I may never be guest of honor or get a plaque for doing something stellar, I still get my fair share of feel good moments.
The other people you refer to may not experience the same “warm fuzzy” feeling at each and every encounter,but on the whole, I think seeing good happy successful stories are a good morale booster. Besides, they may experience it at a later date and take extra chizuk knowing that they are part of a larger community, and are “in”.
Either way, seeing good happy things helps you see other things that way.