olamhatorah, agreed but it is always better to err on the side of caution. So I would rather parents are a little overprotective than under protective.
Here is a lesson to be learned: Tell friends and family to call you in the evenings after play time, after dinner, and after the kids are asleep, that is when your time belongs to you. If they don’t understand this, then you should look for new friends and if family doesn’t understand this, try calling them when THEY are busy with their kids, see if they stop what they are doing to speak to YOU!