“The spiritual welfare of a Jew always takes precedence over his physical well-being. This is an uncompromising point.”
You cant grow spiritually if your dead. I dont know about everywhere else, but in NYC they try to place frum children with a frum social services agency to be placed with a frum family. If there are no frum volunteers…..
“In this day and time, most Rabbonim do not get “involved”.”
You must not know the right Rabbonim.