Reply To: Why Are Kids So Sensitive These Days?

Aries2756

One important correction. Once a person changes their lifestyle and does Teshuvah they can date a regular person of the opposite gender and they don’t need to discuss their past. It isn’t a girls business that the guy used to be a “bum” or at risk…a few years ago if now he is healthy normal and balanced and leading a Torahdig life.

I asked this question to a respected Posek and he said unequivocally that your past should remain the past and is not your spouse to be’s business whatsoever.