Reply To: Why Are Kids So Sensitive These Days?

aries2756

Its not lies to not tell your spouse about your past. If its not relevant your spouse has no reason to know especially if they like the person. Airing your laundry is just asking for them not to like you as much. I would think most spouses would prefer not to know and I cant imagine any good coming out of letting your wife know you were once a druggie or you were at risk and shes not your first….most mainstream girls DONT WANT TO HEAR THAT and wont accept that. There are times when one should lie like for sholom bayis….