Reply To: Why Are Kids So Sensitive These Days?

aries2756

If we are talking about a case where we know he/she will find out then obviously it is better to say in advance. In a situation where theres a very good chance he/she wont find out there is no reason to tell and if it comes out somehow the couple will find a way to deal with it then. They may need to consult a Rabbi or counselor or both but their marriage can be salvaged if they do love each other in the odd chance that the info will get out.

I suggest you bring this up with Daas Torah as I have instead of seeing this from a womans emotional view on this type of thing. Think big picture is all im saying.