Reply To: Shabbos Tshuva drosha recap

No, of course not. But that was the Rov’s point. If you are makpid to go to mikvah before shacris, would never daven without a gartel, shtramel, bekkesha, ect.. more power to you.

But to then sit down in a mixed-seating resturant (which has a super-duper hechsher of course) is inconsistant with the overall message you are presenting to your kids.

Which is not to say, if he sees me coming out of Shnitzi, he will no longer count me into minyan. But if my kids decide to soften a chumra or two, I’ll have no one but myself to blame.