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Sacrilege
“If the boys started not liking it the girls would stop doing it.
It is really that simple.”
2 problems with what you said
1. Girls have an obligation/chiyuv/mitzvah to dress Tznius regardless of how much men like how they dress when they dress untzniusdig. Its really pathetic to blame the boys. Trust me the boys want to see a lot more than these untzniusdig girls are already showing, will the girls show it? Its the girls responsibility to dress Tznius period!
2. Men are wired to be strongly attracted to women. That cant and wont change because Hashem created us this way because He wants His world populated. Theres an important story with Reb Elya Lopian that all women should know so they get an understanding of how things work for a man and if they were like this imagine regular men today!
I hope this story clarifies a thing or 2.