cherrybim:
Well stated!!
SHIDDUCH REMINDER: BUYER BEWARE!!! Do your research carefully. A GREAT Yichus or perfect looking family could just be a charade. DON’T RUSH INTO MARRIAGE BECAUSE YOU ARE AFRAID OF SHIDDUCH STATISTICS.
If there is a history of abuse and estrangement in the family, check things out carefully, and go in with your eyes W-I-D-E open.