To fix the divorce crisis, spouses have to put their spouses first, and families have to mind their own business and stay out of their children’s marriages.
People have to STOP listening to lashon horah, and Rabonnim have to take a SOLID stand against domestic violence. There is never, EVER an excuse for one person to put their hands on another. Ever. No Excuses. Period. And to victimize the victim, which occurs in frum communities frequently, is causing more and more pain. Sometimes, divorce is necessary. At times, divorce is a necessity, not a crisis.