“The situation is that a learning boy is in demand and therefore he can ask for things which you may find unreasonable and come from an attitude entitlement and still get it because thats what other guys are getting”
Exactly, and if he doesnt get it from this class of graduating high school or seminary girls, he will hold out for a girl from the next class. Leaving the other girls to grow older and either change their minds about a “learning boy”, or they will have been working for 3-4 years and have their own money put away to live on for a couple of years, or more, depending on their job. And we wonder why we have older singles?