Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but if the boy is expecting to see a “beautiful” girl and is met by a plain jane that girl does not have a fighting chance to make an impression on him and vice a versa. However, if the truth were told “I think she is pretty, I can’t guarantee what your eyes will see” Or I think she is pretty but she doesn’t wear a lot of makeup, but she is very cheinidik. What is most important to you her outer or inner beauty? On many occasions I have told prospects “you can change a person from the outside in but you can’t change a person from the inside out!”. Appearances can be altered with make-up, lenses, different glasses, haircut, clothes, etc. And that goes for both boys and girls, but you can’t change a person’s heart or personality. Their inner traits and values are what’s most important.
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