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A guy has every right to date a good looking girl and a girl has every right to date a good looking guy. The guy I was referring to in my story was a guy who wanted to date a pretty girl he never said she has to be drop dead, but people were describing her as though she’s really attractive and she’s very clearly not (she also dresses very plain) that’s just plain lying and not right to the boy and the girl, why should people have to waste their time and come to distrust the dating process because of liars?
If a girl isn’t beautiful don’t rave about her looks, call her cute. If a girl isn’t smart don’t call her a genius when she is very clearly average, if a girl is quiet don’t say she’s a great conversationalist and then the guy has to suffer through a painful date…now this goes for the guys as well I’m not picking on anyone, guys have to be honest as well, whoever is giving the info has to be honest!