With all due respect, where do people come up with these ideas?
whenever someone says that they don’t really mean to show respect
1. it’s no longer shabbos
and therefore, what? there is an inyan of showing kavod to shabbos
and 2. why shaving? why not going online to ask that question?
b/c there is nothing wrong with asking a shayloh thats like saying you cant ask a shayloh on friday about cutting nails (the shulchan aruch says you shouldn’t cut them three days before)