Shimmel: Thank you for your comment. What exactly am I wrong about; please explain. Secondly, i’m glad you received guidance and properly dealt with the challenge that Hashem gave you. Furthermore, you contradicted yourself. In the first posting you stated “i’d rather take the girl that I know didn’t have issues.” In your more recent post you asserted “The therapy part doesn’t bother you it’s the issue” and you claim that if you “knew the issue” you’d perhaps be OK with it. Please get your opinion clear and then we can have an intelligent discussion.
Artchill: Thank you for your posting. I’m not sure what your point is. Perhaps you meant that people who have challenging familial relationships are unsuitable to be married. Maybe you are correct; that would pasul many many people, however, from getting married. The point I was making was that people go to therapy for very regular, mundane difficulties and receive a lot of help in many situations. Call these “issues” if you want- I’ll call it Life. If someone had a close relationship with a genuine Talmid Chochom who assisted him in dealing with challenges of all sorts- would you also pasul such a person? Undoubtedly no. Have a Gut Yom Tov. I really am curious for you to clarify your position.