Moq,
I think you have a major misconception. Are there MO people who do things wrong? Yes, absolutely. But none of that is sanctioned by Modern Orthodoxy. [With the exception of Rabbi Avi Weiss who skirts the line, although I am not well versed enough in halacha to know if he really crosses over or if he has solid backing in halacha and just grates against other rabbonim]
Right Wing Orthodoxy also has its well known aveiros Does that mean any of those things are right wing orthdoxy? I don’t assume that.
I do have a lot of respect for charedi rabbonim even if I don’t follow them.
And Moq, do you respect Rabbi Moshe Dovid Tendler? He is a real gadol baTorah but controversial.
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