For the second time: No, I’m not “basicly saying since everyone does it its ok”. I’m not sure exactly what you didn’t understand about my previous post, so I’ll try this one more time:
In order for something to attract attention, it needs to be out of the ordinary.
Therefore, doing something that is widely done is obviously not going to attract attention.
In other words: Everybody doing something attention grabbing doesn’t make it OK, it simply makes it not attention grabbing anymore.