SJSinNYC;
“I got married to have a closer relationship with my husband. Children are the outpouring of our love”
???… that is bichlal not a toradik perspective, u got married to have a closer relationship?? that sounds like you had shaychis before this (besides for dating) because in the torah wold we date to get married to just for fun like the goyim
and your second point, okay, so your admitting you were not leshaim shamyaim, but you make it sound like thats the only reason for their existence.
please correct me if i am wrong being that i AM the matziv chapper