Prof – Its your call and your wallet. My only concern is the folks that are bullied into making this decision, whether they want this or not.
Poppa – True. Two grown adults can choose to live in a cardboard box under the freeway, if that’s what makes them happy. But did the kids get a vote?
OK, the cardboard box is extreme. But more to the point, when one side says, I’ve had enough, now its your turn to go cover the expensense, but the other partner says, I don’t have the abilibty to earn the same $ you do.. now what?
Mod 80 – you are of course right; there are some very happy people living that life. Its the very unhappy people (and the prevention of more unhappy people) I’m speaking about.
And who does this hurt, you ask? Its hurts the husband.. because he is not doing the job he was set on earth to do. And this is not some new-fangled American idea. Its in the kesubah we all (or will someday) agreed to.