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Dr. Pepper –

Sorry for my curtness (especially saying wrong), I regretted that quickly — but not quick enough to edit. I just was disappointed in the “tone” of your original post, but even that was due to a misunderstanding on my part, considering your recent clarification. My apologies again.

I hope you agree with this…

I do in fact.

I’m apologize for being purposely vague over here…

I didn’t quite get that, but do agree with your point. Although such instances are so rare, I’m surprised it was brought up.

Again, over here, I was being vague…

Again, I missed your point before. Probably due to speed reading. You have a valid question here. Although similarly, someone who entered the general workforce in a low compensated position would be in the same boat in this regard.

Thanks for the clarification.

ROB –

I explained in great detail how kollel guys are not on tzedakah. They are being compensated for a service. (In addition to my point from the Ramah and Shach.)

hashemis1 –

Good question. And there is a good answer to your question. I just don’t remember it at my fingertips. I believe it is along the lines that you can give it as maaser since the “benefit” is spiritual. But don’t quote me on that.