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BP Totty-
I understand from your various posts that you are not in favor of long term learning. That is perfectly fine. Your children dont have to learn full time for as long as they can or want.
But can I respectfully ask that you not put down those of us who do want this zechus and this lifestyle?
You sound like a frum ehrlicher yid who follows the laws of the Torah. Why would you want to be constantly talking against those who dedicate their lives to learning that which you firmly beleive in? It just doesnt sound right for a Ben Torah like yourself to keep speaking (or in this case writing) against those who love Torah so much that they want it day and night.
I know you are upset at those in society who take advantage and try to get money (whether thru tuition or whatever else) from those who dont want to give. And I completely understand you. (which is why I am asking so respectfully)
But what about those of us who dont do that? Those of us who get supported thru means that dont bother anyone else?
Can you respect us?