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Sacrilege
You said on another thread how you listen to non Jewish music and movies.
A husband who loves Torah and wants their home to built and filled with Torah, and will spend all his free time learning doesn’t do those things and won’t want a wife who does such things. A Torah life means living a Torah life, not just learning and doing what you want in your free time. A masmid of the caliber you mention will likely be very makpid on his mitzvos and will be anti anything “goyish.”
You may think you want such a guy (maybe because your father is that way I don’t know) but your actions say that you don’t really want such a guy. Lots of people think they want a certain type of person but are fooling themselves.
Or maybe your reply was sarcastic and you aren’t looking for such a serious guy and that’s ok.