Reply To: What does it take to be a ben torah?

sac – Calm Down, Lwts get this straightend out. I am not trying to twist your words one drop. What I recall from your previous post (tell me if im understanding wrong) You stated that you do watch movies etc. and you are not yeshivish, And you feel that you can also want a husband that is a Ben Torah, and you dont see any stirah (conflict) between the two. *If you are not saying this diregard the rest of the paragraph, and please tell me what you are looking for otherwise* Yes it is a total stirah the two things. Being a ben torah and movies etc. do not go together. Its like fire and water, you will not get anywhere with the two. Tell me if I understand you wrong