good.jew – um guys have ben known to forget their wallets at home. It doesn’t show a lack of trust, it shows common sense. I don’t know this guy from a hole in the wall, why should I assume anything about him?
One guy I dated, got into several near-accidents on the way home. He was just a really poor driver and I was terrified. If he had gotten into an accident, believe me I wasn’t going to hang around at the scene – I would have called a taxi and gone home myself, but couldn’t have done that without a cell and money.