Hatzlacha!
Are there any teachers or madrichos you have a rapport with? Sounds like you could benefit from having some ongoing IRL support.
(And I do think you took on a lot at once myself, but if it’s working for you, fantastic! One example: you want to stop wearing short denim skirts, I personally think that’s great. But all denim? Having someone who knows you, your community, etc. to bounce things off of will be very helpful. For the rest of us there are missing variables.)