sister bear, i am probably much older than you and have learned that sometimes you just have to back off. i used to get over involved in peoples problems and would bend over more than backward to try to help them. sometimes people do not really want to change or do things differently and they just want everyone around them to tell them how bad they have it instead of trying to change things for the better. i’ve learned to try to listen and be available but not to take it so to heart because the only one who can effect change is the one with the problem. sometimes i’ve had to take myself totally out of the picture because i knew nothing would change and i couldn’t take watching it.
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