Wolf, I don’t believe you. If you have no charata it is because you don’t believe anything was wrong.
Is that so? I don’t think so. I have no charata because *if I had charata* I would take steps to correct it. But I don’t want to do that. I may regret doing things the way I did, but I’m still happy that, in the end, they *did* work out that way.
Even if I regret the manner, I don’t believe I can have charatah if, in the end, I’m happy with the end result (which, being happily married, I am).
The Wolf