GAW- the point is that not everyone does that.
I was in my pediatrician’s office one day and a non frum babysitter walked in with a child. The receptionist asked whats the child’s name and guess what the babysitter responded? She said, “I dont know!”
She had zero idea what the child’s name was. She only had the phone number of the mother at work.
I heard the recetionist call the mother and give her a piece of her mind about her irresponsibility. She said afterwards how the mother wasnt really surprised or sorry about it.