mw, B”H I have made it through the system and I have healed from my bumps and bruises. It is now my children’s turn to deal with it. But I have already paid my dues in spades and I prefer that my grandchildren’s yeshivas stop sending me pleas for money. I am not interested. As I said, I have already paid my dues and my kids pay enough in tuition!
No one listened to my pleas when I had a complaint about a teacher or a Rebbe, thank you very much. And when I had to advocate for other children these past couple of years I have realized that the yeshiva system didn’t get better it only got worse. So again, I don’t know why you and I have gotten into a head to head battle on this but obviously your experience and mine have been very different. So I would appreciate it if you would stop your rhetoric because I have no intention of continuing this disagreement with you. Nor do I wish to go one up with you. We will just have to agree to disagree. Because I have every right to expect no less from the Yeshiva system than they expect from their students, and to expect less or to make excuses for them is ridiculous. Excuses are for sixth graders.