Being BT myself and a mother of married BT daughter, I can’t see why BT should be so desperate to be married to FFB.
AishesChayil-in-Training – why you mentioned, that no one can tell you are BT? Is it because YOU feel it is something wrong to be BT? If you live your life as a Torah Jew why you are not looking for another Torah Jew, why your are looking for labels?