Actually, ,it was more my concern. Knowing that someone’s had certain experiences, not first with you, could be disconcerting.
And by stuff that could come back to bite, take needles, e.g.
It sounds like you are making excellent hishtadlus. There’s something going on that is clearly indicative that we are in ikvesa d’Mishicha and that is all the good girls like you out there, in front of whose houses you’d expect to see lines of boys in a normal world. Hatzlacha!