Moq;
You are of course correct, that life is about doing what is right, not about fair.
I have a certain notion.
Perhaps it would be nice, when looking into girls, to do a “chessed checking into” for girls who suffer traditional bias. For example, a yesoma. I could see someone saying, “this idea is not worth my time, I have so many better suggestions, but I’ll spend the time to help a yesoma, and check into her”. The same could really be done for a Baalas teshuva.