Truth is, it is far easier to be a good girl then a good boy. (and I am a girl, by the way) For a boy to be a top bochur, he has to really be entrenched in Torah and learning. A girl can be much more nuetral and still be considered a good girl. That is why it’s easy for a girl to say she wants her husband to learn, but not so easy for the husband to live up to that commitment.
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