just as a side point, although kiruv in this way is not for everyone, these programs often give a huge amount to the community, and in addition gives a HUGE amount to the person doing the kiruv, often making them stronger in many ways.
When a person is asked questions about what he believes, or why he believes, he’s forced to think, and ask those questions back to himself, in a pretty strong way.
and when a person is faced with ‘opposition’, he has the potential to grow stronger…