your problems popa are more than I can possibly handle, perhaps a few month of intense therapy
Well, let’s see. Six months of therapy at even $200 a week is only $5,000. Any problem that can be solved for 5 grand is not too serious in my book.
Imagine if you could solve your marriage, or find someone to marry, for 5K- that’s like a tenth of the wedding.
In any event, there is nothing easier to solve than losing weight, because it is entirely physical. Almost every problem in life has psychological or emotional components, and that is the hard part.
You can’t solve your marriage for 5K because it also needs emotional adjustments. Just going through the motions of being a good husband is not enough.
You can’t just go through the motions of being a good parent, or teacher, or employee, or employer, or doctor, or lawyer, or indian chief.
To lose weight, you literally just need to eat less. You can just go through the motions, and you lose weight regardless of whether your heart is involved.