popa why u always making assumptions…u know what they say about people who assume…
but to answer the initial question, its hard to answer without knowing your standards, but when I was in high school I went with my friend and her parents to Disney in Orlando and California and I paid for it completely out of my own pocket, I never even thought of asking my parents to pay. I think it stems from a sense of responsibility my parents instilled in us when we were younger.
I would tell your daughter…If you want something go for it!!