(Like, why are men so intimidated by my education and law degree, that I cannot find a date?)
Whatever the reason is indimidation, as you attributed it, or some other reason, you are correct the reality is she isn’t getting the dates. And that IS a PROBLEM.
You can kvetch about how it isn’t fair, but that won’t change the facts on the ground.
It’s not taught at Harvard or Columbia how to make a tasty Potato Kugel.
It should be. That is far more important for her to know, than tort law is.