Women don’t just learn Rashi. They learn many, many meforshim in depth. Rambam, Ramban, Radak, Eben Ezra…are those just “pshat” too? I’m talking about very Yeshivish Bais Yaakovs here.
So a question to you myfriend: do you think women who learn TSBP (and lets include Rashi and all the meforshim here) should be blacklisted on the shidduch market? They are going against the SA!
As an aside, I’m ashkenazi. Ashkenazim usually follow the Rema on the SA, not the SA itself, no?