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Im not saying not to appreciate. But if you buy a 16 year old a game that says for ages 5-10 on it do you really think the gift giver has done a “mitzvah?”
You arent obligated to give a gift, but if you give one make sure you arent embarrassing the recipient. Thats all Im saying!
Yes you should still try and be a Tzaddik and appreciate it and be grateful, but it hurts when an aunt or uncle does something like that…