we had a speaker speak to us who lost her 8 yr old son and she goes around to ppl who lost relatives and children and tells them that hashem only gives nisyonos to those who can handle them and when you give in to one nisayon the yetzer hara will just keep on giving you more so wen u have a nisayon as great as dealing with a child who was niftar accept it and it can only make you grow stronger. one thing she also said was that 10 years after she lost her child she was cleaning a desk she has never cleaned, on the yurtzeit of her son, and she found a peice of paper saying “im davening for u mommy, love (name of child)” she said that this gave her the biggest chizuk she needed.
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